Saturday, February 6, 2021

Osho about tantrasex

The vagina is the negative pole in the feminine body and the breasts are the positive pole. This is the rod of magnetism: the positive pole near the breasts, the negative pole near the vagina. For man the negative pole is at the breasts, and the positive pole is at the penis. So when breasts meet -- male and female -- negative and positive are meeting; and when sex centers meet in coitus, negative and positive are meeting. Now both magnetic rods are meeting at their opposite poles, now there is a circle -- the energy can flow, the energy can move. But this circle will happen only when a man and woman are in love. If they are not in love, then only their sex centers will meet -- one positive pole will meet with one negative pole. There will be an exchange of energy, but linear. A circle cannot be made. That's why without love you never feel satisfied. When you are deep in love, then breasts also meet, never before. If the circle is totally there, then both the partners will come out of the sex act more energetic, more alive, more charged, with more energy flowing. If there is only the sex act, both partners will come out of it discharged, faint. If there is love, then man and woman meet on two poles. Man gives to the woman and the woman returns it back. This is reciprocal, mutual.

For females, meditation will be good if it starts from the breasts. That is their positive pole. Because of this, many strange things become possible, happen. Unless the man starts loving the woman from the breasts, the negative pole will not be ready. They can yield but they will not participate. Only when their breasts have become filled with energy does their second pole of the magnetic rod, which is negative, respond. Then they are alive to it, then they can participate, then communication is possible -- and then they will melt. Foreplay is a must.

Marriages become dry because in the beginning when you meet a new woman you play with her body before. You are not certain whether she will allow you a direct approach, so you play. You just feel the ground to see whether she is ready. But when she is your wife, you take her for granted -- there is no need. Wives are so dissatisfied with their husbands, not because their husbands are not loving but because they are wrongly loving. They don't think that a woman exists in a different way; that her body responds in a different way just opposite to them.
This concentration at the breasts, melting into them, will give a new feeling to the female meditator -- a new feeling about her own body, because now from the center she can feel the whole body vibrating. Just by loving the breasts of a woman she can be brought to a deep orgasm because the negative pole will automatically go on responding.

If you start from the breasts, meditating on the nipples, don't follow the route that you have read in books because that is meant for men. Simply don't follow any chart, just allow the energy itself to move. It will happen in this way: with just a vague suggestion your breasts will become filled with energy, they will radiate energy, they will become hot, and then immediately your vagina will respond. And only after your vagina responds and vibrates, will your kundalini start working. The route will be different and the way the kundalini will arise will be different.
In man it arises very actively, forcibly. That's why they have called it a serpent rising. Very forcibly, suddenly, with a jerk, the serpent unfolds. And it is felt on many points. Those points are called chakras. Wherever there is resistance, the snake forces itself. Just as the penis enters the vagina, so the passage is similar for man. When the energy arises it is as if the penis inside is moving.

This will not be the feeling for woman. The feeling will be quite the opposite. As a woman feels when the penis has entered the vagina -- the melting sensation, the welcoming, the vagina giving way, vibrating very, very delicately, in a very receptive mood, loving, welcoming -- the same will be the phenomenon inside. When the energy rises, it will be a receptive, passive rise, as if a passage is opening -- not a serpent rising, but a door opening, and a passage opening, and something giving way. It will be passive and negative. With men something is entering; with women something is opening.

When you make love let your consciousness move inward. Forget the woman/man you make love to completely. Close your eyes and let it be a meditation. The tantra experience is when the door inside you opens and something of your inner bliss flows to you from your core. Tantra doesnt say that to make love to the outer is a sin, but it says that you can use that love wave to go far inside. In that moment of thrill you can fly. You can become a Sahara.

Only when muladhar is relaxed can the energy move upward, inward. Upward and inward mean the same. (My comment: This means there must be no blockage in the anus area or the energy will not go from the penis and back up the spine.)

While making love to a woman fire is going outward. By moving inward the fire is going in. And when you throw your seeds of desire, seeds of thought, seeds of ambition, seeds of greed into this fire they are burned. And the finally you throw your ego - the most purified dream, that also into the fire. This is real sacrifice.


Christian and muslim quotes about love

Quotes from the bible:

And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. 1 John 4:16.

And hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. Romans 5:5

By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”John 13:35

'There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love. 1 John iv. 18.

Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.” John 14:21

Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. John 2:15

I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. John 15:9

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. John 13:34

So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5:28

If someone says, “I love God,” and yet he hates his brother or sister, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother and sister whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. John 4:20

 The one who fears has not been perfected in love. John 4:18

In a little wrath I hid my face from thee for a moment; but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee, saith the LORD thy Redeemer. Isaiah 54:8,9

We love because He first loved us. John 4:19

You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye and tooth for tooth.’But I tell you not to resist an evil person. If someone slaps you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also; if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well; and if someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.

You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor’ and ‘Hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Do not even tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even Gentiles do the same? (Leviticus 24:17–23; Luke 6:27–36)

Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little. Luke 7:47

And now these three remain: Faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. Corinthians 13.13

Jesus replied: If anyone loves me, they will obey me. Then my Father will love them, and we will come to them and live in them. John 14:23

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. Timothy 1:7

And the LORD thy God will circumcise thine heart, and the heart of thy seed, to love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, that thou mayest live. Deuteronomy 30:6

The one loving his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling. John 2:10

And this is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the very commandment you have heard from the beginning, that you must walk in love. John 1:6

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and dine with him, and he with Me. Revelation 3:20

But if anyone keeps His word, the love of God has been truly perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Him. John 2:5

You, however, are controlled not by the flesh, but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ. Romans 8:9

As for you, let what you have heard from the beginning remain in you. If it does, you will also remain in the Son and in the Father. John 2:24

Paul: I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love,  may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:16

As God has said: "I will dwell with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be My people. Corinthians 6:16

Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but he who brings it up separates friends. Proverbs 17:9

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness. Galatians 5:22

Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32

But knowledge puffs up while love builds up.  Those who think they know something do not yet know as they ought to know. But whoever loves God is known by God. Corinthians 8:2

Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. Peter 3:7


Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:24


If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. Isaiah 27:7


Remain in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete. Isaiah 27:9


Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another. Romans 12:10


And that He should be loved with the whole heart, and with the whole understanding, and with the whole soul, and with the whole strength; and to love one's neighbour as one's self. Mark 12:33


Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe in Me as well. In My Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and welcome you into My presence, so that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going. John 14:1


Truly, truly, I tell you, whoever believes in Me will also do the works that I am doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in My name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask Me for anything in My name, I will do it. Johnn 14:12


If you love Me, you will keep My commandments. And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate to be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot receive Him, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him. But you do know Him, for He abides with you and will be in you. John 16:15


I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. In a little while the world will see Me no more, but you will see Me. Because I live, you also will live. On that day you will know that I am in My Father, and you are in Me, and I am in you. Whoever has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me. The one who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and reveal Myself to him.” John 16:18


But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have told you. John 16:26


Jesus: But I do exactly what the Father has commanded Me, so that the world may know that I love the Father. John 16:31


Quotes from the quran:


When Love is for the sake of Allah, It never dies.


True love is when you wish that Allah is pleased with the one you love.


The greatest act of Love is to bring each other closer to Allah.


No love is real, No love is everlasting unless it is done for the sake of Allah. This is why love which is done while disobeying Allah is usually broken, ends up in hurt, and both people usually end up as enemies, or go down for other evil after this, unless Allah saves them and blesses them with his guidance.


Short cut to a blessed marriage: Both husband and wife should love Allah and his prophet (peace be upon him) more than they love each other!


Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful. Quran 4:36


“The man dreams of a perfect woman and the woman dreams of a perfect man and they don’t know that Allah created them to perfect one another.” Ahmad AlShugairi


The Prophet said: When a man loves his brother, he should tell him that he loves him. Book 43, Hadith 352


“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi


O Messenger of Allah, guide me to such an action which, if I do Allah will love me and the people will also love me.” He said, “Have no desire for this world, Allah will love you; and have no desire for what people possess, and the people will love you.”Book 97, Hadith 111


There are some people with positive characteristics that are specifically praised by Allah. Al-Mutawakkilin (Those who rely on Allah), As-Sabirin (Those who are patient), Al-Muttaqin (Those who are mindful of Allah), At-Tawwabin (Those who repent) and those who do good.

The Prophet replied, “What can I do for you if Allah removed rahmah (compassion) from your heart?

The Qurʾān mentions two kinds of love, one is rahma and the second is hub. Allah has rahma on everything and everyone. Hub is a love reserved for those who obey God.